The city of Rome, New York, is cloaked in grief as it mourns the loss of Ryan Nutting, a man whose life was a testament to love, resilience, and service. Ryan, a cherished member of the Rome Colts family, a devoted husband to Tara Nutting, and a proud father to Kristopher and Skylar, passed away on February 25, 2025, after a valiant battle with cancer. His death leaves an irreplaceable void in the hearts of his family, friends, and the broader Rome community, where he served as a Project Manager for the Connectors program at the Rome City School District. Ryan’s legacy is one of unwavering dedication—to his family, his students, his athletes, and his town—and his absence will be felt in every corner of the community he so deeply loved.
A Life of Love and Legacy: Ryan Nutting’s Journey
Rome, New York: A Community Built on Connection
Rome, a city of approximately 32,000 residents in Oneida County, is known for its tight-knit community and deep-rooted traditions. From its historic Fort Stanwix to its vibrant youth sports programs, Rome thrives on the bonds forged between its residents. Ryan Nutting was a living embodiment of this spirit. Whether he was coaching cheerleading routines, mentoring at-risk students, or grilling hamburgers for tornado relief, Ryan’s presence was a constant reminder of the power of community.
Family First: Tara, Kristopher, and Skylar
At the core of Ryan’s life was his family. Married to Tara Nutting for 22 years, Ryan often described her as his “rock” and “biggest supporter.” Tara, a nurse at Rome Memorial Hospital, stood by Ryan’s side through his cancer battle, balancing her demanding career with the care of their children, Kristopher and Skylar. Kristopher, 17, a standout linebacker for the Rome Free Academy (RFA) football team, inherited his father’s passion for sports and leadership. Skylar, 15, a competitive cheerleader, was Ryan’s “little champion,” as he lovingly called her. Ryan’s pride in his children was palpable; he never missed a game, competition, or school event, often documenting their achievements on social media with captions like, “Proud dad moment!”
The Connectors Program: A Beacon of Hope
Ryan’s professional life was as impactful as his personal one. As the Project Manager for the Connectors program at the Rome City School District, Ryan worked tirelessly to bridge gaps for at-risk students. The program, which pairs students with mentors and resources, saw unprecedented success under Ryan’s leadership. He was known for his hands-on approach, whether it was tutoring students in math, organizing career workshops, or simply being a listening ear. “Ryan didn’t just manage the program—he lived it,” said Dr. Melissa Davis, Superintendent of the Rome City School District. One former student, now a college freshman, shared, “Mr. Nutting believed in me when no one else did. He helped me see my potential.”
Coaching with Heart: The Rome Colts and Beyond
Ryan’s influence extended far beyond the classroom. As a coach for the Rome Colts, a youth football and cheerleading organization, Ryan was a fixture on the field and in the gym. His coaching philosophy centered on teamwork, respect, and perseverance. “He taught us that winning isn’t everything, but giving your best is,” said Jake Thompson, a former Colts player. Ryan’s dedication to cheerleading was particularly noteworthy. Despite being one of the few male cheer coaches in the area, he embraced the role with enthusiasm, learning intricate routines and safety protocols to support Skylar and her teammates. His efforts helped the squad secure a third-place finish at the 2024 national championships.
Tornado Relief: A Community Hero
Ryan’s commitment to service was never more evident than during the aftermath of the EF3 tornado that struck Rome in July 2023. The disaster left hundreds homeless and caused widespread damage, but Ryan sprang into action. Partnering with local businesses, he organized a massive relief effort, grilling 34,500 hamburgers in a donated food truck to feed displaced families and first responders. “He worked 18-hour days, even though he was undergoing chemotherapy,” recalled Maria Gonzalez, a fellow volunteer. Ryan’s efforts not only provided sustenance but also hope to a community in crisis.
The Cancer Battle: A Testament to Resilience
Ryan’s diagnosis of stage IV colorectal cancer in 2022 was a devastating blow, but he faced it with characteristic determination. He chronicled his journey in a blog titled “Nutting But Fight,” sharing candid reflections on treatment, family, and faith. Despite the physical toll of chemotherapy, Ryan continued to coach, mentor, and serve, often attending events with a portable oxygen tank. “He never let cancer define him,” Tara said. “He lived every day with purpose and joy.”
A Legacy of Love: The Ryan Nutting Legacy Fund
In the wake of Ryan’s passing, the community has rallied to honor his memory. The Ryan Nutting Legacy Fund, established on March 1, 2025, aims to support the Connectors program and provide scholarships for youth athletes. Donations have poured in from across the country, including a $10,000 contribution from a former student. Tara envisions an annual “Nutting Never Quits” 5K to sustain the fund and keep Ryan’s spirit alive. “Ryan’s legacy is one of love and service,” she said. “We will carry that forward.”
A Community in Mourning: Healing Together
The outpouring of grief and support following Ryan’s death has been overwhelming. Hundreds attended his memorial service, where blue-and-gold balloons (Rome’s colors) were released in his honor. Grief counselors have been stationed at RFA to help students process their loss, and plans are underway to rename the school’s football field “Nutting Field” by 2026. As the community grapples with this profound loss, residents are finding solace in acts of kindness and service—living out Ryan’s mantra: “Be the reason someone believes in good people.”
Final Reflections: A Life Well Lived
Ryan Nutting’s life was a masterclass in love, resilience, and service. He was a devoted husband, a proud father, a dedicated coach, and a tireless advocate for his community. His battle with cancer may have ended, but his legacy lives on in the countless lives he touched. As Tara, Kristopher, and Skylar navigate this difficult chapter, they do so surrounded by a community that loved Ryan deeply and is committed to honoring his memory. In the words of a banner hanging at RFA, “We Are All Nutting’s Team Now.”
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